Are you searching for love?

[bommel]

Well I have the advantage (and disadvantage) that the person in question is a close friend. Obviously this puts me in the friend zone but if I am rejected, I know beyond a doubt we'll remain friends.

That's really a difficult situation I would be very afraid of. You could win much but also lose everything

[Eana Tanhì]

You could win much but also lose everything

true... and that's why i hate that situations... that happend to me three times and i was always the one who said no... i hate that i'm a good friend sometimes b/c then some guys think of it in the other way... but luckily, i'm still friend with those guys, even though it wasn't pleasant at first 

[bommel]

You could win much but also lose everything

true... and that's why i hate that situations... that happend to me three times and i was always the one who said no... i hate that i'm a good friend sometimes b/c then some guys think of it in the other way... but luckily, i'm still friend with those guys, even though it wasn't pleasant at first 

Love will come and go but friendship lasts forever

[Eyamsiyu]

Well, whatever you do, you have to make sure that if you were to pursue a relationship and if it falls apart (hopefully not!), you need to make sure you'll still be friends.

[Eana Tanhì]

i had only one "real" boyfriend and when we broke up we were friends at first... and after we didn't see each other for a long time, it just start to be very awkward, so now we just shamely say hi to each other, nothing else...

[Eyamsiyu]

It was sort of the same with my last 2 girlfriends.  The first of the two, it is really awkward because we had been going out for about 6-8 months, and I had to break up with her so I could work on my audition material for college (unfortunate, I know).  The second I broke up with after 2-3 months because I was moving ~500 miles away, and I wouldn't see here ever again.

I talk to both over Facebook occasionally, but it's not the same as in person.

[Eana Tanhì]

i was with my boyfriend for one year and 3 months... that is really long time and he was my best friend then, so i'm really sorry that we didn't stay friends...

[Tsamsiyu Atsteu]

Still searching, not finding. Why is it every guy that likes me is too young? LOL Seriously, this one guy just turned 19. I was all "Erm... awwkward" (I'm 25)

*sigh*

[Eyamsiyu]

Maybe they like older women?  IDK how I can help you.  Maybe just keep searching.  You'll find someone.

[Tsamsiyu Atsteu]

Srane, I suppose so, but that is a wee bit... awkward. LOL. I guess I just have to keep my chin up and keep on looking.

Maybe they like older women?  IDK how I can help you.  Maybe just keep searching.  You'll find someone.

[Tsuksìm atsawl (KaPTan)]

again, if you ever need anyone to talk to about anything(i'm religiously neutral) I'm always in town.

[Tompa'Ivong]

I just turned 26 myself, I am always willing to be there for anyone.  I have one of my passions, and that is the outdoors and nature

[Tsamsiyu Atsteu]

This is true. One of the guys I dated is now one of my closest friends. I wouldn't trade it for the world. Same with my other friends.

Love will come and go but friendship lasts forever

['Ì'awn Menari]

Everyone has a tirea-muntxa out there for them i hope to find mine no matter who they are ^_^.  (btw i was trying to say soul mate but it turned out as spirit-mated hrh just fyi)

[Tsuksìm atsawl (KaPTan)]

I am my own spirit(soul) mate.

[Hufwe ta'em]

what im looking !!!
Me myself and I !!!

[Txur’Itan]

Everyone has a tirea-muntxa out there for them i hope to find mine no matter who they are ^_^.  (btw i was trying to say soul mate but it turned out as spirit-mated hrh just fyi)

That sentiment is said quite frequently, and it is very beautiful and poetic, but I feel not quite realistic for everyone.  I wish it were 100% true, but I think there are those who have to work at it.  It doesn't really fall into place by accident for everyone.

['Itan Atxur]

I think in most cases you really have to work to find your soul mate, but they are out there somewhere. People generally speaking are the same. We all need to love and be loved. The trick is to find somebody who understands that on at least some level.

[Elektrolurch]

I think in most cases you really have to work to find your soul mate, but they are out there somewhere. People generally speaking are the same. We all need to love and be loved. The trick is to find somebody who understands that on at least some level.

Sooo very right...

[bommel]

I think in most cases you really have to work to find your soul mate, but they are out there somewhere. People generally speaking are the same. We all need to love and be loved. The trick is to find somebody who understands that on at least some level.

Is anybody listening?
Can you hear me when I call?
I´m shooting signals in the air
Cause I need somebody's help
I can't make it on my own
So I'm giving up myself
Is anybody listening? Listening...