what is your ideal mate?

[tifnu tivawm]

sweet caring strong smart and understanding

[Lolet]

loving, protective, smart, but not too smart, a playful spirit.

more once I think of them hrh

[tifnu tivawm]

yea very nice... i think tht the caring and light playfull spirit is needed

[Lolet]

curious, can be serious, wants eveng.

I couldn't be with someone with no sense of humor. 

[tifnu tivawm]

niether could i

[Lolet]

Oh yeah, I forgot muscles! hrh

[Nìwotxkrr Tìyawn]

<<<<Rayt thar

[Mako]

Dude, I can jump on this!

Funny, smart, compassionate, passionate, loving, playful, good with kids, and supportive.

And here's the beautiful thing: I've found her, and the fact that she's beautiful is a bonus.

[Lolet]

Easy to talk to. Easy to love. Easy to make me laugh. 

[Amaya]

Equally comfortable indoors or out in the wilderness

Physically competent and mentally strong

Sees the humour in life but can be serious when necessary

Enjoys swimming and cooking (must NOT be a picky eater!)

Willing to let me dress him up in crazy costumes occasionally

A good, understanding but also firm parent and a conscientious lover, willing to tie me up now and then 

And most important of all, willing to accept my choice of life path (and preferably wiccan/pagan also)






No, I haven't thought about this at alll..........

[Tompa'Ivong]

Willing to let me dress him up in crazy costumes occasionally

And most important of all, willing to accept my choice of life path (and preferably wiccan/pagan also)

HrH to the 1st one =)

we seem to have quite alot in common, I am shamanistic myself, I love cooking (I just made mustang grape jelly(from a subspecies of muscadine berries).

of most of all, I say: an Open Mind

Tolerance

some degree of self sufficiency/and the ability to think for themselves

empathy and compassion

[Amaya]

hrh yeah, some of mine come as the result of a particularly badly-thought-out relationship with a fairly antisocial extremely picky eater who was very physically weak and viewed my family cabin and the surrounding forest (which I'd told him was the "home of my heart" and my favourite place on earth) as "*shrug* lots of really big trees har har aren't I funny" .  We were also both a "submissive" type which just...doesn't work.

at least it showed me what I didn't want.  Now if only I could find someone with all those qualities I do want, everything would be perfect

[Tompa'Ivong]

kinda intriguing, I would definitely be considered fairly strong, a decade of cycling is where I get that. I would love to live in a cooler enviroment due to the meds I am on, I can bear hot, humid weather, but I don't favor it, I favor the cold much better.  When autumn/winter/early spring rolls around, ill pick back up to my 20+ mile bike rides.  I would say I could be fairly adept at swimming, but in the lazy style, I don't waste alot of energy when I flip onto my back.  I have fortunately become more sociable over the last year now that I am medicated.  I am most suited with a small group of people, but I can perfectly be around a group that goes to a game store or comic shop

[Lolet]

Some one who likes to play in the water!

[tifnu tivawm]

wow... all your ideas for mates are very awsome... i agree most of th eideas ive heard

[Eyamsiyu]

Wow... a lot to list here.

First off, she MUST know how to have a good time, with or without "substances."  It's easy with them.  Maybe not so much without if you don't know what you are doing.

She MUST love Avatar.  And almost everything Disney.  She would have an appreciation for most music, even if she doesn't like certain styles.  She would NOT be ignorant, and if so, fight to not be as such.

She also must have a sense of humor, and also like my sense as well.

Oh, and she must love cheeseburgers and pizza.  Because I do.

[tifnu tivawm]

Wow... a lot to list here.

First off, she MUST know how to have a good time, with or without "substances."  It's easy with them.  Maybe not so much without if you don't know what you are doing.

She MUST love Avatar.  And almost everything Disney.  She would have an appreciation for most music, even if she doesn't like certain styles.  She would NOT be ignorant, and if so, fight to not be as such.

She also must have a sense of humor, and also like my sense as well.

Oh, and she must love cheeseburgers and pizza.  Because I do.

very good desrciptio lol

[Lolet]

Someone who dosn't stop flirting with you, even after you're mated. 

[Mako]

I couldn't live with that, just sayin.

[Eyamsiyu]

Ummm... shouldn't the title be "who..." not "what...?"